Anxiety and stress

Today is A-level results day. As a counsellor who works with teenagers, I see what really happens beneath the surface of this day: grades quietly fusing with self-worth, results-day comparison on social media, and reactions that range from relief to a genuine sense of loss. This piece looks at A-level results day anxiety from a counsellor's perspective, and what actually helps teenagers and their families through today and the days that follow.

England has just had one of its driest spells in years — heat, water shortages, wildfires, and it's happening elsewhere too. If that's left you with a low, unsettled dread, there's a name for it: eco-anxiety. Research since 2007 treats it as a rational response, not a disorder, and studies suggest coping with eco-anxiety works best by facing the feeling rather than pushing it away — connecting with others, taking small consistent action, and knowing when to ask for support.

Rage-baiting and anger are closely linked in today's online world — and it's by design. This article explores the psychology of online rage-bait, why anger can feel more accessible than ever, and what the research says about anger, algorithms, and our nervous systems. I also share practical, gentle ways to manage anger day-to-day, and how counselling — including person-centred therapy — can help when anger starts to feel unmanageable. A balanced, evidence-based look at anger

Concerns about the impact of social media on children are rising, from disrupted sleep to anxiety and constant notification overload. With the UK government announcing a ban on social media for under‑16s from 2027, this article looks at the evidence behind the decision and what I see in my work with teens — offering a balanced view of how this change could support young people’s wellbeing.

Many of today’s digital comfort habits — from bed‑rotting to doom‑scrolling — offer quick relief but can quietly drain our wellbeing over time. This article explores why these trends resonate, where they may become unhelpful, and how to find gentler, more sustainable ways to cope.

In a year where the news feels relentless, many of us are carrying more emotional weight than we realise. Constant updates, global crises and personal pressures can leave our minds overstimulated and overwhelmed. This article explores how negativity affects our wellbeing — and offers gentle, practical ways to protect your mental health from negativity without disconnecting from the world.

Nostalgia for the 90s is everywhere — from cassette tapes to fashion trends — but why does it hit so hard in midlife? This article explores the psychology of nostalgia, why we’re drawn to the past, and when reminiscing becomes emotionally unhelpful.

Many young people experience eating disorders not because they want to change how they look, but because food becomes a way to cope with overwhelming feelings. In a world of pressure, comparison, and uncertainty, eating difficulties often reflect a deeper struggle for safety, control, and understanding.

Bullying looks different today, especially for teens navigating constant online pressures. As a counsellor working with young people in schools and private practice, I see how deeply it affects their confidence and sense of safety. With steady listening, collaboration with school, and support that protects their autonomy, parents can make a powerful difference.

Discover how to manage self‑criticism by understanding where it comes from and how it develops. This person‑centred guide explores recent research, the roots of self‑critical thinking, and gentle, compassionate ways to soften your inner critic and build a kinder relationship with yourself.

Many UK adults struggle to get enough restful sleep, and it’s taking a toll on mental health. Sleep helps our brains process emotions, manage stress, and stay resilient—but poor or inconsistent rest can heighten anxiety, irritability, and emotional reactivity. Small, consistent changes in routine, environment, and mindset can improve sleep quality, supporting both mental wellbeing and everyday functioning.

Discover how boxing for mental health can boost wellbeing, reduce stress, and build confidence. From learning proper technique and defensive footwork to connecting with supportive communities, boxing offers a fun, structured way to release tension and improve mood. Initiatives like the NHS boxing gym highlight its therapeutic potential, showing that this empowering sport is for everyone, not just competitive athletes.

November is Men’s Mental Health Month — a time to open up the conversation about men and therapy. Despite high rates of distress and suicide, many men still hold back from seeking support. This article explores the stigma, cultural expectations, and quiet courage behind men’s experiences of therapy, offering an empathic, hopeful look at how talking can truly help.

Loneliness and social isolation affect millions in the UK, impacting mental health, wellbeing, and a sense of belonging. Humans are wired for connection, but modern life and social barriers — including for neurodivergent individuals — can make meaningful connection difficult. This article explores the emotional toll of isolation and offers practical tips to rebuild authentic, supportive relationships.

Burnout doesn’t always arrive with a bang—it creeps in quietly through skipped routines, comfort eating, and endless scrolling. Even as a counsellor, I’ve been there. Over time, I’ve learned to spot the signs early and respond with small, kind steps: listening to my body, leaning on loved ones, and getting outside. Burnout will happen again—life is hard—but it’s how we manage it, and how gently we treat ourselves, that really matters.

When life feels overwhelming, sometimes you just want to scream — and now, it turns out, that might actually help. Inspired by a recent Lorraine TV segment, this article explores the growing trend of “scream therapy”: why people are gathering to yell away their stress, what science says about it, and how you can try it safely (and sensibly) without alarming the neighbours.

We often say “I’m so OCD” about little quirks, but OCD is much more than tidiness. For the 1 in 100 people in the UK living with it, intrusive thoughts and compulsions can dominate daily life. Awareness begins with understanding the burden, listening without judgment, and recognising the power of compassion and support.

Growing up in the 90s, mental health wasn’t something we talked about. Reflecting now, I see how “everyday trauma”—from family challenges to personal setbacks—quietly shaped my wellbeing. This World Mental Health Day, I’m reflecting on access to support, both in times of crisis and in daily life, and how making mental health care more available to all can truly change lives.

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s unsurprising that many people feel stressed or anxious on a regular basis. Work pressures, personal relationships, and the constant flow of information can sometimes feel overwhelming. I believe everyone deserves to feel calm and in control. Here are practical strategies to help you manage stress and anxiety and take back a sense of balance in your life.