Retroactive jealousy can appear when a partner’s past feels uncomfortably present, stirring comparison, insecurity, or old fears. It’s a deeply human experience that can place strain on relationships, but with space to explore what sits underneath these feelings, therapy can help people reconnect with the present rather than feeling pulled into the past.

Many older adults experience emotional challenges, yet they’re under‑represented in therapy. In my practice, I’ve noticed how practical barriers, generational attitudes and unfamiliarity with counselling can all play a role. This article explores those factors with curiosity, and gently invites support at any age.